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Desperately trying to stop myself from posting a spoilerfilled prompt… - Me myself and I
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Desperately trying to stop myself from posting a spoilerfilled prompt on both the spn kink meme and letskinkjensen

I just really need to read something, where someone beats the crap out of Sam, and Sam gets no sympathy from anyone...

Yes, I'm still pissed off with him, in case you were wondering.
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From: gail11803 Date: February 6th, 2014 09:13 am (UTC) (Link)

kicking Sam's butt

...and here I thought I was the only one who wanted to smack the crap out of Sam. What an ungrateful, selfish, childish, unloving, way to treat Dean. Dean loves him so much, not just as his brother, but in some ways as a father too. He practically raised Sam. He literally pulled Sam from the fire as a baby. What a bitch!
suzmc From: suzmc Date: February 6th, 2014 09:38 am (UTC) (Link)
Oh, hell no you aren't the only one. I'm pissed as hell. What an ungrateful brat. To say that someone who has given body AND SOUL LITERALLY for you to live over and over is doing it for themselves shows that he just doesn't understand that kind of love.

Here's what it boils down to. What Dean feels for Sam isn't only brotherly/family love. It's parental love. He's basically been this boys dad since Dean was 4 years old. And that kind of love is all consuming. For your child, you would do anything to see them safe. Anything. It's takes precidence over your connections to all other people. For my kids I would give up my body and my life. No contest. I would save them at all cost to everything and everybody. That is what's happening here and Sam is too centered on self and his idea that his morality is superior to everyone else's.

Sam doesn't get that because he has never felt it. No one in his life was ever his responsibility and he's never felt a devotion like that to where they were more important than anything. Maybe if he ever becomes a "parent" in some sense of the word he will. This is how he was able to tell Dean that everything he's done to save him was just for himself. He doesn't get it because he's never felt it. It's typical baby of the family behavior and most people out grow that when they become adults and find that person they want to feel responsible for. I can say that because I am the baby of my family and that selfishness is in the job description until you out grow it. Sam just never has.

I'm so weary of this "Dean just can't understand" bs about what was said. Sometimes the words ARE what was meant.

I'm not saying that Sam doesn't love him I just think he is very quick to put Dean's motives to the negative or self centered side because he simply won't by empathetic to how desperately Dean loves him as more of a child. Most people would kill to be loved like that.

So, in summary...I want to smack Sam upside the head.
sanshal From: sanshal Date: February 6th, 2014 10:23 am (UTC) (Link)
I'm yet to see this epi; (sadly; still to air in my country) but going by the 'strong' reviews it's getting, I can't wait. (plus;, given I've felt that way for awhile now (the let's smack- Sam- upside- the- head -feeling); I think I'll just get in que now. *grin*
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